HAUNTING EYES

Here she is again. If you hurry, you'll see The Afghan girl with the "haunted and haunting" eyes as a child living under Soviet occupation. I wrote about her months ago on AOL. Hurry!

OOPS!

Oops! I accidentally erased PART 1, just one of the many mistakes I am making these days. If time allows, I will replace it though it will be out of chronological order. 

LIFE AFTER EAST HIGH, PART 2 

Soon, my time in New York was over and I was asked where I would like to be stationed. I said the West Coast and got it. I was one of several in charge of two cars of the train, with a Chief Petty Officer WAVE over us all. The two cars parted at Barstow and mine went on to Oakland. The Oakland Wave Barracks were close to a Sears store. When Christmas came, I did all my shopping there, for the Sears in Nashville had sent me coupons to use like cash in any Sears store, a few hundred dollars’ worth.

In Oakland I had charge of barracks and the WAVES who worked elsewhere.  Navy busses transported them everyday to Treasure Island and other places. While here, I received my first chevron on my sleeve and became Petty Officer, Third Class.  When the Oakland WAVE Barracks closed down, I transferred to Oak Knoll Naval Hospital, again in personnel. This was a more interesting post, for thousands of men were stationed there. In chow line one day, I actually met a friend from my home church in Nashville. Many were invalided from the war, of course, and now my WAVE charges were hospital corpsmen. (We weren’t politically correct in those days.) Just a few weeks before I left the service, I got another chevron for my sleeve.   

I was in military service only fourteen months and left it as a Petty Officer, second class, the same rank as Staff Sergeant in the Army. It wasn’t nearly so easy for the men to rise in rank. My brother got to be only a corporal during his four-year stretch in the Signal Corps and he was on the front lines. But he had enlisted right after high school while I had two years of college behind me. Except for the Naval Nursing Corps, women in the Navy did not serve aboard ship and never overseas. Otherwise, I would not have enlisted.

In those days the women’s services were not permanently organized. Just think of Boots in the WAVES ousting several hundred families from their apartments to house the recruits. Just think of the need for putting in a new floor in the lobby on the main floor because WAVES had swabbed the hardwood to destruction when working off demerits. (I swabbed it once for two hours when someone’s hankie was found on the floor under my laundry bag. My laundry bag was labeled, remember, and one didn’t talk back and say the hankie was not hers. Besides, it was mine.)   

After discharge from the Navy, I traveled to southern California to visit an uncle whom I had never met except when I was just a baby. He had palomino horses and orange groves and was a captain in the sheriff’s posse that led the Rose Bowl Parade each year. The back of his olive drab shirt, expertly creased to the hilt, was embroidered in satin stitch with a huge pink rose. These men would not think of leaning those shirts back against anything before they rode out in parade.  

Since Uncle Hal’s wife was a complete invalid, whom I never really got to know and whose name I can’t now remember, he took me to dinner at Mike Lyman’s, where he ordered for me my first entree of really rare roast beef, from which time I have always preferred it. I must add that Uncle Hal did take his wife in her wheelchair out to dinner at the finest restaurants once a week and helped her eat. He was Monrovia’s City Manager and everyone knew him. 

My train traveling from Los Angeles to New Orleans and then on to Nashville that August was almost empty, apparently allowing the one young male in the car to think it would be hospitable if he conversed with the lone young female. We did converse and before long sat side by side with our feet propped up on the seat in front of us, which he had adjusted to face us. He was a nice man, having just had a short vacation in the west from his job in Ohio, a job of running the family’s company which for several years had been manufacturing war materiel. I asked him what they manufactured in peacetime. He said, “Little things, like metal closures for salt and pepper shakers.” I thought at the time, “This is something to remember, to put later in a story.”

When we got to New Orleans, I thought I would die from the humidity. Nashville and New York had been humid enough but this was unbearable and we had nearly three hours to kill before we would reboard the train for Nashville. The coolest place we could think of was a movie theater; so, we saw “Northwest Mounted Police.” They were Canadian, I think, in red jackets. Once outside again, I could hardly wait to get back on the cool train. But we walked around a while, doing a little sight-seeing. We would eat dinner on the train.

Several towns before we pulled into the vast breadth of tracks at Nashville’s Union Station, this nice young man from Ohio, this mogul of industry who was probably already a millionaire (though he didn’t say so, didn’t brag at all), asked me to marry him. Of course I told him no. Today I don’t even recall his name. The situation reminds me of Lady Bird Johnson, who said yes to Lyndon right after she met him. A whole different situation. I wasn’t in love. 

After another short stint of work in Nashville, with National Life and Accident Insurance Company, I came west again and with only eight dollars and fifty cents in my purse. But now I had the G. I. Bill. I arrived in Nampa by train on a January night and found two girls waiting up for me. I slept in the guest room at Morrison Hall on the NNC campus and to the surprise of Miss Helen Wilson, the Dean of Women, was up by six o’clock, looking for breakfast.  

By arriving there at the beginning of the second semester, I was a stranger among students who, for the most part, already knew each other. My southern accent stood out like the proverbial sore thumb but it was a modulated accent, tempered by time away from the south. 

I was assigned to the Lamda Sigma Phi Literary Society and when it came time for us to present our drama “Harriet,” for competition with the other three societies, I tried out for the role of Harriet Beecher Stowe. I learned after the fact that Professor Finkbeiner wanted me to have that role, but the powers that be decided only I could talk like a southern Negro! (This would really have been a laugh in the south.) So, in Act One I was the Negro mammy; in Act Three, years later, I was a Negro maid. I was five feet, six inches tall, weighed less than one hundred and twenty pounds. They blackened my skin and stuffed my clothes with pillows and I became a big, fat, waddling Negro mammy. I recall the line, “Yo hush yo mouf!” That’s all I had to read at the tryouts and the hoorays resounded. Afterwards I was glad I had not got the role of Harriet, for she had over three hundred lines, most of them without cues from other actors. And Petey Montgomery did an excellent Harriet and we won the trophy.         

I finished college with a major in English and minors in German and social sciences at Northwest Nazarene College (now University). I helped pay my way by being Assistant Dean of Women because of my training in the Navy, and by grading papers for the German professor after I’d had a year of German One in eight weeks of  summer school. My boot and specialist naval training of three months had earned me several college credits in physical education, health, sociology and psychology.   

My original plan for college was to get a Ph. D. in literature. However, soon after I got to Idaho, I met John, an Idaho man who had shortly before I met him graduated from the School of Forestry at the University of Idaho. For one of my few science classes, I had a botany textbook just off the press, which he had waited for while he was studying botany. I told him if he would help me get an “A” in the class, I would give him the book. But I got a “B” and he had to marry me to get the book. 

The church wedding was one semester before I finished college. He lived in Emmett at the time and I in Morrison Hall in Nampa. I went “home” to Emmett on the weekends and John came to Nampa on Wednesday nights for a date. I finished college in January, two years from the time I had arrived in Nampa, and graduated in May.  Then we went where my husband’s work took us. 

MY VISIT AWAY

The wall of windows in my hospital room did not show the usual scenery; we could not see the foothills which are not far away, because of the heavy smoke from the fires west of this location. Saint Alphonsus is a beautiful hospital, nine floors tall, with a huge curving façade, and the rooms were full.

I found the most comfortable bed to be the one I had in the Emergency room. But I didn’t notice it the night of my admission (Tuesday); I was too full of pain. Time came when I was able to make a joke with an audience of three or four. I complained about the typical uncomfortable hospital bed. Then I said, “I’m used to a Temper-PEDIC bed.” After a moment, I added, “When I become Empress, I’ll give everyone a Temper-PEDIC mattress.” After another moment for them to swallow that foolishness, I closed with, “My middle name is Trump.” That got the laughs.

But when I returned home on Friday, and took the new prescription that night, I wanted that uncomfortable hospital bed, for I was in pain and seeing hallucinations (sheets of music which I could read in the dark)! I didn’t sleep, of course, and the concierge downstairs was able to reach my primary doctor Saturday morning. He said, “Get her back into the hospital.” To the Emergency room I went again and enjoyed a beautiful situation.

Almost as soon as I got into the examination room, in came the doctor with his full team. The curtain was closed fully and no one interrupted the procedure. The doctor never left me to see another patient.

The tall, slender Japanese doctor introduced himself as Dr. Kim. No one else talked. Except me, of course. He asked me questions. Then everyone was quiet.

How strange to see three of the team busy with their respective machines in silence. They all wore blue, one of my shades of blue, “grayed navy,” not looking like the ordinary hospital uniforms. They looked dressed up!

The doctor stood on my right, near the foot of my bed; a guy on my left was the only one who smiled. He wore a gorgeous blue-flowered shirt, the design beautiful enough for a lady’s long party dress.

To the right of the doctor was a young lady, her dark hair up and out of her face.  A “halo” of tiny reddish flowers (as far as I could tell) framed the pretty face.  She faced the same way as the doctor and never looked at me or said a word while there.

After typing in some information, Dr. Kim began consulting his little pocket machine. I knew he was looking for a different drug for me. I spoke up and asked the young man at the head of the bed, “Where’s your machine?” He laughed and said he didn’t have one. Perhaps he hadn’t graduated yet. He had the job of moving the bed , if necessary, for the other three were professionals.

The rooms were the same colors as the attire of the personnel, the same blue on the railings on my bed, the perfect contrasting walls, an off white, gray, blue, whatever, take your pick.  

The point I want to make is that this doctor had apparently trained his team to know their places, look great, work efficiently, and not talk. I wonder if other doctors at St. Al’s are doing this.

I would like to tell you more about this scene, but it’s almost 11:30. Time to sleep.  ♥

A BEAUTIFUL POEM

Today, just after the teams finished playing Word Wars, my friend Norm showed up looking for me. He had something for me to read critically. He had written a poem about, and for, his wife Donna who is now in another location, for she was diagnosed as having dementia. We sat down in that room (Movie Room) and I listened as Norm read the poem aloud. It was truly beautiful and quite touching. 

Then as I headed for my apartment, I saw him at the door of the office for the two lades who work the Enrichment activities here. I do hope they listened to his poem. Norm used to be in my writers’ gathering at my house one day a month for five years. Usually there were about a dozen of us at a session. We called ourselves SMAGS (for Second Monday Afternoon Group).

Norm also says he came across my name in a book! He couldn’t remember the title or the author’s name, but a woman. He has been saying he’s going to give me a copy of the page or something like that. He said the woman wrote about spying, I don’t know if fiction or nonfiction. My only guess is that she was once a student of mine.

DR. BEN CARSON

How exciting it is on the election front! It does not surprise me that Dr. Carson is in second place; that Hilary is in deep water; that the average American doesn’t realize what Sanders’s Socialism would be like living under; that Fiorina is climbing in the polls; or that Trump seems to get smarter day by day.

Dr. Carson is the most brilliant of them all, but he may be too brilliant for electability. While some candidates have their eye on winning the election, he has his on saving the generations. If someone else gets elected, Carlson should become “Czar to Save Civilization.” He recommends we all read the history of such an atrocity as abortion, following the life of Margaret Sanger. We learned her name in school, but we had no idea she was a racist or that she had a wild plan to decimate certain elements of our society. You might call it one form of genocide. Do, please, pay attention to what Dr. Carson says. 

CANDIDATES AND SOME FINDS

Since I wrote the previous Blogs about the election, I’ve learned a few more facts expressed by candidates directly or indirectly. Hillary has stated she wants 135 billion dollars for education. Jeb is still moving his head too often. (Isn’t anyone going to tell him?) One poll showed Ted Cruz is second place, but another one this morning says Jeb is. Both are far behind Trump, of course.

One commentator said on Sunday that Trump is a phenomenon, but it remains to be seen if he is a short-term phenomenon or a long-term one. But Rand Paul explained Trump pretty well in a news shot yesterday. The newsman called it an attack on Trump, but it was not on the same planet as Trump’s attack on anyone. Paul was exceedingly proper. He did not over emote and I agreed with everything he said. (That makes him correct, right?) I wonder what sort of upbringing those two lads had, Trump and Paul. It might be helpful if we could see something of their private lives now, not just afterwards see such of the one who wins.

For example, how many times has Trump been married? How many times for Fiorina? Anyone else? So far as I know, Reagan is the only president we have had who was legally divorced. It sort of seemed the nation made an exception for him, because he was so loved by the people.

JFK’s first marriage is still mainly a secret. Money talks, I suppose. But there are books you can read that tell about his early marriage to someone other than Jackie. So, what is happening now; are we going Hollywood? God forbid!

A QUESTION FOR TRUMP

Would you, as president, act alone, or would you have the Congress vote on your plan of surrounding ISIS, wiping them out, and taking all the oil from the area for America? Should we anticipate the Obamaesque habit of Executive Orders running our Republic?

AND AGAIN

I’m getting the two sets of competitors blurred into one. After all, one set performed just before the second set did. We heard only good comments about the second bunch, who ran first. That was a good maneuver to execute.  So, I will not differinciate between them from this point on.

One candidate I like is John Kasich of Ohio. His honesty and sincerity show through more than for some other candidates. He seems not just after the job, but really wants to save the country.

I must have fallen asleep during the debates for I can’t remember Scott Walker except for his look. Handsome man, but I don’t know what he said. Maybe next go-round I will know him better.

Rick Perry of Texas will build a wall, we’ve heard several times. Or we could build factories in Mexico and have its people stay in their own country (my idea). Perry is one of those who repeat too often. Compare with Carson.

Carly Fiorina is the new kid on the block. Read about her on your computer. She’s well accomplished but her life has been filled with enough misery—my word, not hers—that such could revisit her, even the Big C. We don’t need that in the Oval Office. I think I’m not ready for a woman to be our president.

I don’t suppose Trump is ready for a woman president either. But I hear it was he who drew 24 million to watch these first debates. Pundits are saying that was a good thing, but . . .

To be continued. 

MORE RANDOM THOUGHTS

Where I live, many people do not know what I mean when I ask them, “Did you see the GOP debates?” They look at me as if I were the endangered one, not them. But the ones who play Trivia on Tuesdays are much more aware of what’s going on in the world. When I asked this same question of one of them, she threw up her hands and said, “Yes. I had to see what those Republicans are up to!” But I already had her number. It’s rare to find a teacher or former teacher who is not a liberal. I am grateful not to have been brainwashed. If I was brainwashed, it was by the Constitution and the Bible. No better literature anywhere!

Anyway, I’ve already changed my mind about one of the candidates I mentioned in the first blog about the debates. I will not say who but it turns out he’s faintly recognized as having liberal ideas about education.  I trust I heard this correctly: Chris Wallace asked this candidate a question three times without getting a straight answer to it. That’s a red flag for me. It will be interesting if he’s one of the ten in the second debate.

I did not like to hear Christie’s rudeness to Rand Paul. Why were they all not talking against the Democrats instead of each other? Even if one of them disagreed with the candidate beside him, he doesn’t need to attack his partyman but just show his ideas are better than those of the Democrats. If the shoe fits, this partyman could wear it.

Here I must point out the politeness of Dr. Ben Carson. I believe he did not pinpoint anyone on the stage with a personal criticism. He is a gentleman of the first order. He also did not slouch, as another one did, and he is, I believe, the oldest candidate running.

As for the one who slouched, I wonder about his health. Was he so tired that he had to prop himself up? What about decreasing some of that avoirdupois?

To be continued.

THE FIRST GOP DEBATE: Random Thoughts

(A special note here first: On today’s AOL news photos is the picture of the girl with haunting eyes Steve McCurry once photographed in the Middle East and years later went back to find her. You read about that in my blog “You Must Go Back.” Now you can see her on AOL if you hurry.)

My choice of the best performance in last night’s debates was that of Dr. Ben Carson. Extremely intelligent and charming.

Donald Trunk – Tramp – whatever his name is -- has no appeal for me. Is he just another Ross Perot, wanting to divide the elephants?  

Two of the male candidates have had face-lifts but I won’t tell you which ones.

Mike Huckabee did VERY well. A good man with a good head on his shoulders. He has a good chance, I think.

Jeb Bush did okay, but he could have done MUCH better if he had held his head still. When anyone doesn’t do that, it’s likely to hide something, like crossed eyes, or eyes too close together, etc. Is Jeb hiding something from us?

Tim Cruz made a good impression on me, gave some really good statements.

Marco Rubio did well, too.

I must cut this short, for the men are here to install my new dishwasher. ♥